Wedding FAQs

Frequently Asked Questions and General Information

Below you will find information and common FAQ’s – remember, if you need anything else or have additional questions don’t hesitate to contact us at info@butterflyhollow.com or 615-784-8551

How do I hold and confirm a wedding date? To hold a wedding or vow renewal date/package we require a 50% deposit. This deposit can be paid by check, PayPal, Venmo, or credit card. Once you have requested a date we will send you an email with the details of your wedding package and the deposit amount. At that time please indicate your preferred method of payment. Once your deposit has been received, we’ll follow up with an email confirmation/receipt to include links to some additional helpful wedding planning web pages. The balance for your wedding package will be due 60 days before your arrival date or the agreed upon date on your invoice.
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What is the limit on number of guests for your weddings? All of our wedding packages have a predetermined number of guests included in the base price. For a nominal fee of $10.00 per guest you can add guests to each package as long as your guest count does not exceed 30. This limit is primarily due to our insurance guidelines, but also the intimate nature of our hollow and size of the farmhouse. We wish we could share Butterfly Hollow with more of your family and friends, but having this comfortable number will help keep your wedding celebration simple, personal and stress free. Your photographer does not count towards your guest count. If you select our Butterfly Hollow Celebration package and your photographer’s contract states a meal must be provided, he/she will need to be calculated into your dinner count.
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Do children count as guests? Yes. An infant under 23 months (2 years) would be the only exception.
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Does our wedding package include a gratuity? No. Butterfly Hollow does not believe an automatic gratuity should be added on any of their packages. We believe it should be a decision left up to you based on the level of service received and the overall satisfaction of having your special day at Butterfly Hollow. A service charge is applied to all wedding packages to cover credit card and administrative fees. This should not be considered a gratuity.
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Can we provide our own music for the wedding? Absolutely! Although we do not have recommendations, you are welcome to hire your own “live” musician for your ceremony and/or reception. As an alternative option, you are welcome to bring your favorite music on a downloadable playlist. We have a portable sound system you can use via Bluetooth. If you do not have any musical preferences we have a wide variety of instrumental music for the ceremony.
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What will we do if it rains? For weddings at Butterfly Hollow, we can still have a beautiful, cozy ceremony on the covered wrap around porch of the farmhouse or in our open air barn.
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Can we bring champagne/alcohol for our reception? Yes. Due to local laws and regulations we currently cannot sell or provide alcohol. Since this is a private function, you are more than welcome to bring your own beer, wine and/or champagne. If you desire a full bar you must hire a licensed/certified bartender with approval on the individual from Butterfly Hollow management.
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Can a family member video our wedding? Most definitely!
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Can I have other people arrive with me to help get ready? Each package has a predetermined arrival time for the bride/groom/partner. Please be aware no more than six (6) guests can arrive with you at this time. If more than six (6) guests will accompany you, prior written approval must be received by management and an additional fee will apply. Butterfly Hollow is our home and was not built as a modern day wedding venue.

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Are there other local accommodations for our guests? Yes, there is a local hotel ten minutes away, several B&Bs, rental cabins and state parks close by. Several standard chain hotels to choose from are within a 25 minute drive in Lebanon. Once your reservation has been confirmed, we will send you more information and contact phone numbers for some of these lodging alternatives in our confirmation email. You are welcome to add our bed and breakfast rooms for family and friends if you desire.
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Is there a restaurant close by that we could take our wedding guests to? Please see our Restaurant tab under Things To Do for a few recommendations.

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Can we say our own vows? Most certainly. If you would like to include any special prayer, traditions or non-traditions into your ceremony, that would be wonderful. We want your wedding to be a reflection of the two of you. We do have a list of many sample vows and ceremony ideas, if you would like a little inspiration, which we also include in the confirmation email.
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Can our minister perform the ceremony? Yes. You are welcome to have your own officiant perform the service who meets the Tennessee legal requirement to officiate and sign your license. All of our wedding packages, where the minister or officiant is provided by Butterfly Hollow, are legally binding.
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Do you provide any wedding favors ? No. You are welcome to bring any gifts you would like to share with your family and friends. We do sell Butterfly Hollow coffee mugs, wine glasses, or T-Shirts which can be supplied with ample notice. We only carry a limited supply on property.
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Are there any local beauty salons so I can have my hair/makeup done? Yes. There are a few salons and beauty shops within a ten minute drive. The confirmation email you receive after your reservation is made will list all of them along with their contact numbers so you can make an appointment.
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Do high heels work well for outside weddings? Heels can be a bit challenging, especially if the ground is soft or wet. Wedges work the best, though we have had many brides wear sandals, flip flops, cowboy boots, or go barefoot. If high heels are a must, then you might need to pack along a little sense of humor too, or perhaps bring along some comfy shoes to walk around in and then slip into your heels at the wedding spot.
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